What is it with cancer? Why can’t it just fuck off? I’ve really had it UP TO HERE with this shit.
Today we lost my uncle David, my mother’s oldest brother to lung cancer. He never smoked. He was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer last summer and I never got to see him. I was hoping (perhaps stupidly) that he would hang on and I’d see him this summer at a planned family reunion. What a putz I am. Don’t wait, people.
This little boy is almost 2 years old and was recently diagnosed with a Wilm’s tumor, stage 3. He had to have his kidney removed. He is now going through radiation and soon will be undergoing chemotherapy treatments. That’s a lot for a little dude to handle. Shoot, it’s a lot for a grown person to handle–one that can communicate and open the pain meds. But a baby? I’m sorry to the believers but this is how I know there is no god. This little man is lucky, he has two awesome and loving parents who are able to be with him all the time and this is a very treatable cancer. But I still hate this cancer’s guts.
I fucking hate cancer.
Nana died from cancer, Boppa died from cancer. Another good friend battled it (AND WON!) last year. I’m absolutely finished with it.
I can always recommend garlic mashed potatoes in the face of any adversity, and even cancer. They will make even the worst situation seem a little better and you might feel a teensy bit comforted.
I don’t mean to sound trite–saying that some stupid mashed potatoes are the cure-all for cancer or any other serious illness or adversity, but it’s true that certain foods can take you back to happier times–there’s a real reason some of this is called “comfort food”.
They are creamy, warm, buttery and with just a hint of garlic. Good as a side or in a bowl on their own.
In the meantime, send positive thoughts to that sweet little boy.
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Garlic Mashed Potatoes
5 lb sack russet, Idaho or “Sierra Gold” potatoes, cut into uniform pieces. Peeling is optional.
1/2 cup butter (or more, to taste)
2 cups whole milk
salt, pepper
5-6 cloves garlic, minced
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Scrub potatoes and place in a pot of cold salted water. Bring to boil and let cook until fork tender.
In a sauce pan, combine milk, garlic and butter and set over a low flame. Let cook until hot but never boiling. The garlic must poach in the milk and butter mixture, so continue to cook on low for 10 minutes–or until the potatoes are cooked and drained.
When the potatoes are tender, drain and return to the pot. Add the melted butter, hot milk and garlic. Mash with a potato masher by hand. Add salt and pepper to taste. Add more butter, milk, salt or pepper as needed.
Serve with gravy, butter and green onions, or just in a bowl.
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I’m so sorry about your uncle.
Thank you Debbie!
So sorry for the loss of your uncle. I can relate, most of my relatives have died of cancer..so I’m keeping my fingers crossed it’s not out looking for me.
so sorry, UC… xox
Cancer is a bunch of fucking bullshit and I hope it chokes.
So sorry Sweetheart. As you may suspect yhe big C is an enemy of mine as well. Surrounding you and that little man and his parents in the light. xoxox
You never think about cancer til you deal with it. I lost my husband of 34 yrs. and my best friend of 40 yrs. Your right about the comfort food, especially giving the people you love that home-cooked love before they get sick. Great you take the time to cook. Yr kid WILL remember!